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“Speaking Truth To Lies”

Fathers Day Statement 

From

The Desk Of 

movie icon 

tv icon 

legendary 

Wings Hauser : 

✨🫶🏼🫶🏼🏄🏼‍♀️🏄🏽🐬🐬🦋🦋🎞️🎶✨

“ One  of Wings’s 

All time favorite stories:  

When we first began 

working together, 

first – Wings cast me as an actress 

to play the lead 

in a romantic 

western movie   

but that film didn’t get made 

for financial reasons 😭🥺😢

 ( due to ‘the suits ‘ who are ever – increasingly dominating the entire cultural industrial complex  – and who are also – disturbingly — also posing as  the so-called “ artists “  too ) 

–  I was so disappointed because I loved that role – 

but then he hired me 

to replace an actress 

in the DVD version on a different film – 

where we got to know each other as Artists. 

He encouraged me 

in the new role 

to write my own dialogue 

– to be bold — 

I was amazed at that! 

But Wings was impressed with both 

my audition 

and my  scholarship  /  #education 

AND 

 – he has ALWAYS been a feminist   – 

yes it’s true . 

Later he

hired me to type dictation

for a screenplay in which 

we were set to co-star. 

He dictated the first sentence, 

but I didn’t type it. 

He paused 

and asked me what was wrong. 

I suggested a different line 

& mentioned the grammar 

needed a little adjustment. 

I was just being honest.

After a pause, 

he let out one of his GORGEOUS 

laughs. 

Then he said 

‘OK you get co-writer credit.’

He said he knew he could trust me 

because I wasn’t just typing for a paycheck, 

I was actually ‘giving a damn’ about what I do 

and about the project.

He had suffered several betrayals, 

both personal and professional 

by the time we met

and he was impressed 

with my honesty & work ethic. 

About my proposed rewrite, 

he said : 

‘Just Fixit and And let’s move on. 

We have to deliver this script.’

Then he got up 

and with a sharpie pen

actually wrote on the wall: 

‘Re-Write Witch’

illustrating the fact 

that he never trusted ANYONE 

except me , 

to even suggest any edits in any project. 

I got up from the keyboard 

and with a sharpie pen

I crossed it out

and 

Re-Wrote it : 

“ The Witch Of Re-Write.” ©️™️

Wings saw that 

 and then : 

more thunderous 

Wings Hauser laughter ensued. 

Not many people could get him to laugh like that. Only me & his dear brother, my dear brother-in-law #ErichHauser – 

Anybody who knows Wings – knows about his generous laugh – but he frequently repeated that only me and Erich could get him to – really laugh –  from his soul.

Then Wings said : 

“ who are you ? “ 

Later when we got to know each other better, he would add: 

“and where have you been 

all my life?” 

He would often repeat that line  throughout our relationship

and 

years later 

after our partnership 

bloomed into love 

he said he was ‘incredibly 

pissed that he had to waste so much 

time waiting for me to be born 

in this lifetime , ‘ 

indicating that

 we had been through 

several lifetimes together’

This was something 

I didn’t fully understand 

#TwinSouls 

until recently. 

But it felt true.

Now I understand that it is.

I actually understand

The reality  of soulmates . 

✨🦉✨

Just a few years ago

my soulmate was getting ready 

to make a public  

Father’s Day 

#StatementFromWingsHauser  

He has always been known 

for not speaking much in the press. 

So many of the cool things 

he initiated

as one of the VERY coolest 

#moviestars 

and 

someone who’s

 Integrity is matchless 

(except maybe among the 

other greats – like Gregory Peck )

were imitated by some in the industry 

who not only take advantage 

of their association with Wings

but also 

pose as imposters 

in  

the ‘wardrobe 

of integrity’ 

while 

not walking the walk 

in their true personal lives. 

Wings focuses 

on the Love in our home

and the Love in our work  together 

which incorporates

Love for humanity 

and our #sealife #wildlife 

sisters & brothers 

on mother earth . 

Unfortunately 

while battling COPD  

Wings realized it was time 

to address lies 

perpetuated 

about him for many years. 

Lies the Internet seems 

to repeat

because that is the nature 

of the Internet.

So as distasteful 

& draining as the idea 

of making any kind of a statement 

felt like stooping to that level 

was so challenging for him

but he felt it was important 

to finally – say something. 

He dictated the statement

then told me 

with a knowing laugh 

– it needed  “a rewrite. “

I work to keep everything

true to him – to fulfill 

his wishes on every level. 

Including timing.

I am editing out most 

of the expletives tho lol. 

That pissed him off, but he allowed it. 

That’s why he asked me to handle social media for him. 

He felt his honesty could get misrepresented because he might not be able to hold back some of the expletives ETC. 

Wings rarely held back 

– that’s  one of his greatest traits. 

He was not 

“ born with a silver spoon 

– in his — (not mouth) “ 

– so he is 

an 

#Authentic 

#WorkingClassActor “ 

Sometimes being outspoken 

got him into trouble

but it’s an  

authentic way to live . 

He was amazed

at the amount of lies 

told by those who 

bought & posed 

their way into the industry  – 

passing themselves off

as “authentic. “

Nevertheless, as already mentioned,

he chose the high road when it came 

to certain lies. 

Because they were so despicable, 

he did not want to sully 

our life. 

But he always 

planned to address them. 

I’m simply posting now 

because I promised. 

As ‘The witch of rewrite ‘ ©️

A badge I proudly wear

I will “just Fixit and move on . “ 

He asked that 

that  – his statement about lies 

— NOT- be the main focus. 

He asked that it 

be embraced 

by everything 

he REALLY cares about: 

Our love

Our partnership 

Our projects 

Our kindness 

For humanity

Sealife 

Wildlife

Blue Mother Earth. 

He told anybody he encountered

about his pride in our teamwork. 

He understood that

 “some people

refused to be happy for us. 

Some refused to be happy with us

due to a strange & toxic form 

of jealousy & misogyny . “

But he “ hoped  that they too – 

could someday join so many others

who find inspiration

through our partnership 

love story.” 

✨🦉✨

Wings is one of those rare people 

who  

REALLY

ALWAYS 

focuses 

on : 

The Positive.  

Me Too. 

He was not born into money and privilege. 

Me Too. 

He was raised by hard-working and loving parents, who taught him how to love well. 

They also taught him how to stand up for himself against thieves, bullies – and liars. 

So – 

he was 

relieved to 

finally 

address the lies. 

✨🦅🦅✨

We fought a lengthy multiple years battle 

with COPD . 

But then

The Malibu / Palisades   wildfires 

made this battle much harder. 

We focused on

His Wellness

We focused on our next projects

His Ongoing Legacy

Still Alive in Me 

He made it very clear 

He had already 

appointed me #quarterback 

for our team  

long …. 

Looooong … 

– LONG ago – 

and he expected me to – 

“Go Long “ 

To SHARE 

Our current

Multiple international

award winning

Indie  

with

Original soundtrack / album

To Complete 

 Our personal participation 

In a

documentary film 

Which we are NOT producing, 

Wings wanted it to be 

VERY CLEAR 

that he did NOT 

initiate nor benefit from the 

Kickstarter Campaign 

designed by the 

documentary producers 

but 

we are participating in 

the documentary 

to a degree- 

– – pending — 

— the intended incorporation 

of notes & edits from Wings – 

he had learned to protect 

his Legacy 

and so he left extensive notes 

about the current version 

of the edit . 

I shared his extensive notes with the producers and we shall see if they comply. 

✨🦅🦅🎞️🎶✨

. 

Wings made me promise 

to produce & release 

( ‘ give birth to ‘ ) 

our NEXT 

#indiefilms 

albums 

& 

books 

Including

His memoirs . 

💍👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️🍰🫶🏼🫶🏼

“ Wings made 

the ultimate forward pass to me

And I don’t fumble.  

But that is a mixed metaphor 

because he appointed me 

quarterback, lol 

but you get the point ©️” 

✨🫶🏼🫶🏼🏄🏼‍♀️🏄🏽🐬🐬🦋🦋🎞️🎶✨

We never take one moment 

for granted with each other

And 

we are still together 

just as he promised

Every day and every night. 

We are together

As creative partners always. 

We first got to know each other 

as artists.  

Which is to say 

we got to know each other

as 

 souls . 

We became best friends

who deeply understood 

the sources of pain. 

We found 

our place for healing

in each other. 

We are each other’s home. 

We meet forever in the place 

where 

The SparkOfArt©️ is born.  

That place where 

 art is born

 spontaneously . 

Every moment in time – space 

where 

Authentic 

  true love is born . 

We still meet there 

In the Light 

every day 

and 

every night 

✨✨🪷🪷✨✨

Wings Hauser 

Is the wisest man I have ever met 

Anybody who benefited 

from his kindness 

and wisdom knows  

immediately 

that you are 

in the presence of someone special.  

When he would discover  

any given lie was told 

about him 

in the press

whether it be 

perpetrated by 

a writer, producer or actor, 

most  of the time 

after throwing out a few expletives – 

he just laughed 

and said “ fuck ‘em”

He doesn’t take many 

professional things personally. 

He truly focuses 

on the good things in life. 

But when it came to anybody 

impugning his soul – 

the fact that he lives 

a life of integrity. 

A life of honesty

decency 

& kindness 

towards humans and wildlife. 

That’s where he draws the line. 

Realizing that the Internet was now embedding lies – 

and his deep pride in 

the integrity of our life together –

The joy he finally found

in our love and partnership 

– something he 

had been looking for all his life

– that’s what clarified  his decision 

to address the lies .

Fighting for Oxygen

Amazed at the jealous cruelty

He was determined 

not to allow these lies to persist. 

✨🦉✨

He cares far more

that our story 

be shared. 

So he asked 

me to keep telling it

💍👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️🫶🏼🫶🏼🍰🎞️🎶

It’s not just that I never planned to get married. 

I actually planned never to get married. Lol. 

Until I met my partner . 

I highly recommend this approach. 

Instead of planning some ideal – 

– I learned that – 

– my partner was obvious . 

I just knew . 

Some people might say that comes from a place in our souls . 

A place of spirit . 

It’s the same place that speaks to me 

now that he speaks to me 

“in the here-always.”©️™️ 

In addition to being the best partner anyone could ever wish for —

I’ve never seen a better father 

( or grandfather ) 

As We Approach 

this Fathers Day 

Which unfortunately takes place

During the same month of our

Eternally joyful 

Wedding Anniversary 

A time of year 

we have always felt absolutely elated

We spent the entire month of May in anticipation of celebrating June

Just as we did right before our wedding

There were no wedding jitters

We were just thrilled

We still are

Then we spent the whole month of June the whole month of July and then basically the rest of the year lol celebrating every day as though it was New Year’s Day. 

Unfortunately, sometimes the month of June was

– just slightly – marred 

By Pathology 

from drama caused by relatives 

The drama was not in our home

One of our favorite sayings is that 

“we like our drama on the screen, 

not off screen. “©️™️

That’s how we live our life. 

As soulmates, we embrace the miracles. 

Grateful for every day and grateful for love above all. 

Kindness 

nature 

sea life 

wildlife

Our love makes us whole. 

Cognizant that not everybody 

gets the blessing of a love this deep

We often employed 

a lot of compassion

And forgiveness 

toward those who simply 

could not relax 

and enjoy our company 

nor receive our kindness. 

Sometimes people who are so bogged down 

in their own drama become competitive 

because they just don’t know how to receive kindness from somebody they might resent for whatever reason. 

Celebrity culture was one thing when it involved actual talent and hard work. 

As soon as it became gentrified, reflecting the rest of what I have been referring to as “the gentrification of culture” ©️ 

a process that happened overtime while “  we “ as a culture  –  were sleeping. 

It was a process that happened when “ we “ – as a culture –  started denigrating – laughing at “ lower budget projects,“                                                              

“ we “ – as a culture – started identifying with millionaires and billionaires and trillionaires … 

While our own bills were choking us, ….. 

while the “ arts and culture “ – of our Nation – 

normally a place that would identify a sanctuary for kindness, and humanity … education and empathy… science, and open-mindedness… 

 was now becoming a place trampled upon by the wealthy… 

And now “we“ as a culture now became complicit in trampling … 

which was happening at the same time “we” – as a culture – 

started “voting against ourselves” – 

these massive shifts are quite connected . 

Wings was getting ready to make a statement about all of this, but health concerns became primary. 

I will continue to celebrate our wedding anniversary every day this month

I will continue to celebrate our love every moment of every day and night

Wings asked me to use my own instincts with regard to the timing of making a statement for him

About the ongoing lies, he saw perpetuated on the Internet

I don’t have to explain to most people how lies can become embedded in a culture through the use of Internet as a tool

While many lies about wings had been told in interviews and in the process for many many years

Of course the Internet changed things

He put together a statement and I never planned the timing of Releasing the statement

The other day when I joyfully released one of several celebratory posts online

Celebrating our anniversary , our love story

and the projects that I am continuing for his wishes and per my responsibility and the honor of continuing the ongoing legacy for wings and for our family – 

he has made it clear in every way that his legacy is not over – it continues with me & our #Sustainable Studio @ the Cali Lili Indies ™️

which is not a mansion, it’s a surfshack Loft –

but beyond that – it’s a way of life.

Handmade To Make A Difference ™️ 

Recently- as we celebrate our anniversary month – several posts repeating lies about Wings popped up on the screen. 

In that moment, I knew that this is the Father’s Day when his Father’s Day statement – needed to be released – so that these lies do not go unaddressed for one more moment. 

While we definitely navigated challenges throughout our time together

The toxic nature of navigating lies being told in the public

And The feeling of helplessness to deal with such lies

On the one hand when you have to deal with lies, you are stooping down to that level

On the other hand, if you don’t address the lies, then you become perhaps complicit?

It’s a conundrum for anybody in the public eye and now nowadays everybody is online so more and more of us understand this challenge

Lies can affect not only one’s inner peace

But they can affect career and earnings

They can affect the reputation of someone who might live their life with such deep kindness and compassion 

In the public eye people can protect their own privacy by not sharing personal details simply because they are protecting their privacy

Everyone can understand that

But when Lies are perpetuated about another person

That’s obviously just plain wrong. 

Protecting one’s own privacy is one thing

Brazenly and cruelly harming the reputation of another individual 

Especially when that individual has been so kind

That’s a whole other matter. 

 So I am taking one moment

To make one statement

By wings hauser

Addressing the lies. 

It’s not a perfect statement because he did not sit and polish it

He spent very little time, thinking about it 

He just felt the need to finally make the statement . 

After he put it together and shared it with me 

We talked about a few adjustments 

And then he asked me to post it when the time is right 

And then we decided that we would simply continue to celebrate our love and our projects 

Just as we always do 

It might be hard for some people to comprehend, living one’s life as though every day was New Year’s Day

Every day 

is a holiday 

at the Cali Lili Indies ™️

with Wings & Cali 

That’s just how it is

I am mindful

That my soulmate

The love of my life

The man who calls me

‘ His Future ‘ 

And 

“ The One Love Of His Many Lives “

Would often experience 

The shock and amazement

Of the cruelties 

he experienced as a father

From those who chose to compete 

withhold kindness

From someone 

to whom they owe 

so much

He often took this in his usual stride

Allowing petty things 

roll off his back

He has a great sense of humor 

and didn’t let 

too many petty people bother him. 

But at a certain point, 

the lies 

That have been told for so many years 

Those lies 

went a bridge too far

It seemed as though 

no matter how much 

he ignored the lies

People who just wanted 

To both hurt him

And compete with him so unfairly

That they tried to imitate him

In some macabre game

Of impostor 

Stealing his persona

Or in other cases attempting to slander him

Using publicists 

 and third parties

Pretending that it was out of their hands

Wings remains here at home in spirit

Still working with me 

In the

“Here-Always” ©️™️

Just as he promised. 

There can never be

Another Wings Hauser 

Of that, he is certain

Of that I am certain 

and so are all of our 

Genuine family, and friends 

fans and supporters. 

✨🦅🦅✨🎞️🎶

He loved the idea that – 

our next Indie Films – 

will exclusively – 

star him as an AI character ( with standards, strictly overseen by me  –  

we are the only entity authorized 

to portray him / his persona as such ) 

Our projects deal with many subjects in the humanities 

and the environment 

from the intersection of  #science – 

and #consciousness 

🍰🍰💍🤵‍♂️👰‍♀️🫶🏼🫶🏼

Family dynamics can become 

a mystery for many families

Sometimes no matter how much kindness you put out

You might still not receive it in return

Luckily for us, we have so many genuine family members and friends

Ultimately

We felt sorry for those who just couldn’t see how blessed they were to have us in their lives. 

We looked upon this as a sad story for the human condition at times

At the same time when one person on this planet takes for granted the love they have in their lives

It creates an opportunity for others to embrace the love

Hopefully this coming year will allow not only our nation, but the entire world to unite as a family, blessed in love – not only for the human family, but wildlife , sealife and all sentient beings on this big blue beautiful #motherearth 

Hopefully, we will all appreciate the love we have

Too often 

people who are 

blessed with angels – 

take them for granted.

So many 

Who have grown up with so much privilege

And 

do not understand what ABUSE 

Actually feels like 

to a child growing up

in an abusive home

Will actually become abusers themselves

So many, who take for granted their

Privileges

take advantage of angels 

While also trying to tear down those to whom they owe so much. 

It’s inexplicable. 

It is cruel beyond belief. 

But enough about all that

Let’s get back to what’s important

✨🫶🏼🫶🏼🏄🏼‍♀️🏄🏽🐬🐬🦋🦋🎞️🎶

Wings asked me to repeat ✨

we are still together 

just as he promised

Every day and every night. 

We are together

As creative partners always. 

We first got to know each other 

as artists.  

Which is to say 

we got to know each other

as 

 souls . 

We became best friends

who deeply understood 

the sources of pain. 

We found 

our place for healing

in each other. 

We are each other’s home. 

We meet forever in the place 

where 

The SparkOfArt©️ is born.  

That place where 

 art is born

 spontaneously . 

Every moment in time – space 

where 

Authentic 

  #truelove is born . 

We still meet there 

In the Light 

every day 

and 

every night 

✨✨🪷🪷✨✨

©️

#CaliLiliHauser 

With 

#WingsHauser 

 In Love

Forever

@

The Cali Lili Indies ™️

(statement made on behalf of Wings Hauser #LiesAboutWingsHauser finally addressing the lies told about him for  years  )