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All #Abuse whether it be #DomesticAbuse #ChildAbuse #WildlifeAbuse #SealifeAbuse or #HumanRights abuse of #Democracy = Abuse of Power requiring Intervention #Accountability & #RuleOfLaw

Rule Of Law & Civilization suffer from malignant conservatives obstructing progress for this planet compounding the anemic lack of agility in courts & justice to meet global need for accountability in defense of 21st century Democracy Humanity & planet-earth 

Demystify The Dictator

as Bully Abuser with Mental Illness

End Tolerance For Pathology.

reprinted from 2014

Meditations on 

Cali Lili ‘s   

Oscars 2020 Contender

movie + soundtrack

“eVe N’ god

this female is not yet rated “™

© Cali Lili™ 

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Dear World,

It is time to Recognize,


and Remedy with Alacrity

the very Simple Cause for Abusive Conditions under which so many innocent people , animals, wildlife, sea-life – living beings on our blue-planet Mother Earth – suffer and have suffered for generations.

The Pathological Psychology of a State Dictator is that of any other Common Bully, Emotional Abuser, Physical Abuser

Please let us apply the Same Common Sense Remedies for any other case of Abuse

The Same Remedies applied Upon receiving the Abused Family Members into a Safe House or Shelter can be applied globally

The Stakes are catastrophic if we neglect this Mental Wellness for Our Global Family

At the very simplest psychological level – the solutions are so clear

Like any Culture or Group of People oppressed by The Dictator – the Family Members of an Abuser suffer unimaginably, the daily agonies of tortures – both physical and psychological 

These agonies damage victims for generations

Unhealing Wounds paid forward into the future …

generation after generation …

from private hells 

to genocide 

scarring, savaging the humanities of us all as the wound becomes encoded genetically

In a never-ending cycle of misplaced tolerance for pathology.

Democracy’s genius lies partly in it’s foundation of “Balance Of Powers” 

Whereas Absolute Power is a certain path to Abuse Of Power whether it be exacted on an individual, family, nation, economy, or planet.

The Survivors’ Wisdom teaches :

Survivors of Domestic Abuse, Child Abuse, Workplace Abuse, wildlife, sealife, environmental abuse know the Mechanics of Abuse of Power require enabling by those who amplify and ultimately enable the authoritarian to speak at their victims, stealing the Voice of The Victim by appropriation of the victim role – while alienating friends and family – to isolate and deny the victim from rescuers.

Jealous of unattainable excellence and of love they feel denied – the abusers’ self-soothing tool is abuse of any power in their capacity, whether it be the smallest or the greatest effect – they are so powerless to heal their own malady, they seek to exact revenge on any thing , any one willing to tolerate or enable the rampage.

The Abuser must completely control their environment in order to escape accountability and consequences and to that end they must recruit little armies of enablers forming a cult of weak followers who see themselves reflected in the dictator’s delusional superiorities.

The rampage might be an unconscious mechanism unknown to the Abusers themselves, can seem quite innocuous, even laughable at first.

But with time, enabling, tolerance of little pathologies by increments (Absolute Power is the goal of their dis-ease )

The disease rules.

The mechanics include fomenting chaos and faking victimhood – the abuser obfuscates and obstructs justice and healing.

The abuser dictator derives relief of their own pain, by causing suffering in others.

Their only destination is death and the ceasing of their own pain, but they are too sick in their ego’s narcissistic quest to prove their superiority, so they harm everything in their environment in a quest for personal glory.

Please let us End Our Tolerance for Pathology and Begin the Remedy with the very same Basic Common Sense used to protect an innocent child from the Pathology of her abuser.

If We Numb ourselves into delusive agreement with Toxic Apathies, lulling ourselves into the Oblivion of a Depressed World View that holds it impossible to end war, abuse, hate, torture

… – then what?

Then by abdication, we have accepted our own Demise through knowing and willful Sufferage of Pathology and Abuse

If we accept Such Sufferage for another, then by definition, we accept it for ourselves 

To see this truth – is one step toward Global Mental Wellness and therefore – one step toward the remedy of a condition that literally plagues us like a global pandemic

Global Mental Wellness Assures Global Physical Survival by our admission and acceptance of the Larger, Kinder and Most Practical Truth

That Truth is of our Unlimited Potential to counteract the equally unlimited pathologies of the Abuser

Global Mental Wellness is vital to our survival and perhaps we ignore and discount it because most cultures do the same with individual Mental Wellness

Via Global Mental Wellness we will have access to these Remedies :

It is Possible to access our own Toxic Emotions as individuals and also as Cultures, Societies, States, Countries

It is Possible for us all to Detoxify, Remedy, Improve, Heal our own Behaviours when we know we have crossed a line

It is Possible to Recognize Early Warning Signs of Impending Events via Understanding the Mechanism of Abuse and the Psychology of The Abuser


It is Possible and Necessary

To Say “No” in the Very Earliest Stages of any impending Abusive Event,

It is Possible and Necessary,

To Say “No” most often with Non-Violence

It is Possible and Necessary

To Say “No”

Whenever a Dictatorial, Abusive presence rears its ugly head across our own boundaries whether they be personal physical boundaries at home, at work or national boundaries

It really is – Possible.


Right Now.

Then –

let us say “YES” to Urgent Care for Social Justice + Climate Action 

We have Emergency Rooms for broken bones but not broken spirits so let us create a coalition of lawyers, universities, social and public service workers and wellness professionals to build an online + phone in network that amounts to “Social Justice + Climate Emergency Rooms “™©

Let’s Do This.


Right Now.

~ ~ ~

© cali lili reprinted from 2014 in 2022



Oscars 2020 Contender :

“eVe N’ god
this female is not yet rated ™ ” ©



would do the world a favor

if we could all familiarize ourselves

with a

a condition known as

malignant narcissism

Sometimes referred to as :

Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NPD

While we all have varying degrees of

healthy narcissism,

those who exhibit the abusive behaviors

illustrating this condition – are indeed

chronic abusers & there’s no known cure,

except to shelter all living beings away from the abuser 

or better yet

remove the abuser from society

 as they are a chronic threat to all in their midst.

One of the hallmarks of such abusers,

Is that they’re often found in

Positions of power in MANY INDUSTRIES

and walks of life

including but not limited to politics 

as they’re willing to

Do ANYTHING to attain it. 

These persons are big or little dictators. 

That’s why we need to stop worshipping

superiority & dominance

in every aspect of our own cultures

businesses and societies. 

All Abuse

whether it be

Domestic Abuse

Child Abuse

Wildlife Abuse

Sealife Abuse

or Human Rights

abuse of Democracy


Abuse Of Power





by JUSTICE in order to effect


& RuleOfLaw

Because in democracies,


Dear friends,

Please seek out

& SHARE FACTS & quality journalism wherever you can!

Some quality sources :





Dear Friends,


CallCongress CallYourSenators

Demand that conservatives in both parties including Manchin of West Virginia  &  Sinema in Arizona : DO THEIR JOBS

TO Save Democracy 

support @housedemocrats @housejuddems


These are not red or blue issues …

these are matters of Decency


divided we fall for anything…

Survivor’s Wisdom ;

#DemystifyTheDictators 📖📚📜

All #Abuse whether it be #DomesticAbuse #ChildAbuse #WildlifeAbuse #SealifeAbuse or #HumanRights abuse of #Democracy = Abuse of Power requiring Intervention #Accountability & #RuleOfLaw

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