War Is Abuse Is War
The Survivors Knowledge
©Cali Lili™2014
Like Survivors of War,
Survivors of abuse,
Whether Emotional or Physical,
Instantly recognize the build-up,
Escalating tensions that lead to war.
From the Personal To the Political,
We lack that Extra Layer of Comfort,
Stripped Away,
As a Result of Experiences that none of us
Should ever need to claim.
Although garnered by pain,
There is a Survivor Strength
We Possess,
And a Wisdom,
HyperVigilance and Sensitivity,
Like an Alarm that awakens us
And Everybody in our midst.
DeMystify The Abuser as Terrorist Dictator ;
The Chain of Human-KIND is STRONGER Than Our Weakest Links™
Domestic Abuse + ChildAbuse are Dictatorial Terrorism
In order to Demystify The Abuser
We Must Understand him and his Cronies
As Terrorist Operatives
His Need for Dictatorship as Mental Illness
The Victim’s Remedy is To End Tolerance For Pathology
©by Cali Lili™2014
Dear World,
It is time to Recognize, Understand, and Remedy with Alacrity : the very Simple Cause for Abusive Conditions under which so many innocent people suffer.
The Pathological Psychology of a Terrorist / Dictator is that of any other Common Bully, Emotional Abuser, Physical Abuser …
Please let us apply the Same Common Sense Remedies for any other case of Abuse
The Same Remedies applied Upon receiving the Abused Family Members into a Safe House or Shelter can be applied globally
The Stakes are catastrophic if we neglect this Mental Wellness for : Our Global Family
At the very simplest psychological level – the solutions are so clear ….
Like any Culture or Group of People oppressed by The Dictator – the Family Members of an Abuser suffer unimaginably, the daily agonies of tortures – … both physical and psychological in nature
These agonies damage victims for generations …
Unhealing Wounds paid forward into the future … generation after generation … scarring, savaging the humanities of us all as the wound becomes encoded genetically
In a never-ending cycle of misplaced tolerance for pathology.
Please let us End Our Tolerance for Pathology and Begin the Remedy with the very same Basic Common Sense used to protect an innocent child from the Pathology of her abuser.
If We Numb ourselves into delusive agreement with Toxic Apathies, lulling ourselves into the Oblivion of a Depressed World View that holds it impossible to end war, abuse, hate, torture … – then what?
Then by abdication, we have accepted our own Demise through knowing and willful Sufferage of Pathology and Abuse
If we accept Such Sufferage for another, then by definition, we accept it for ourselves …
To see this truth – is one step toward Global Mental Wellness and therefore – one step toward the remedy of a condition that literally plagues us
Global Mental Wellness Assures Global Physical Survival by our admission and acceptance of the Larger, Kinder and Most Practical Truth …
That Truth is of our Unlimited Potential … to counteract the equally unlimited pathologies of the Abuser …
Global Mental Wellness is vital to our survival and perhaps we ignore and discount it because most cultures do the same with individual Mental Wellness
Via Global Mental Wellness we will have access to these Remedies :
It is Possible to access our own Toxic Emotions as individuals and also as Cultures, Societies, States, Countries …
It is Possible for us all to Detoxify, Remedy, Improve, Heal our own Behaviours when we know we have crossed a line
It is Possible to Recognize Early Warning Signs of Impending Events via Understanding the Mechanism of Abuse and the Psychology of The Abuser
… and
It is Possible and Necessary,
To Say “No” in the Very Earliest Stages of any impending Abusive Event,
It is Possible and Necessary,
To Say “No” most often with Non-Violence
It is Possible and Necessary,
To Say “No”
Whenever a Dictatorial, Abusive presence rears its ugly head across our own boundaries
It really is – Possible.
Now.
Right Now.
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on her be-half
by ©Cali Lili ™ 2013, 2014, 2018
child – hood
a nightmare stood
butterflies
all in my head
always nervous
i’m no good
the other kids
they seem so calm
how they do?
that?
i want the fun
i want 2 be the brat
how they do
that?
butterflies
all in my head
all ways nervous
i’m no good
they seem so calm
i the dread
the
no place
home
workin’ harder ’cause,
i’m
no
one
damn
there’s the sound
the living room this time
where death is never
far away
i’ve got 2 find out
why she stays
but first
i get
Him Off Her Back
there goes the Sm-ACK
i get Up
in between them
SCREAM
stop
don’t U
see the WRONG?
STOP
it
stop it
stop it
till my tiny voice
is gone
my mouth is open
there’s no sound
i cry myself to sleep
be
CAUSE
i could not
fight the cruel
still have to take the test
take the test at school
beg mom
Leave Him
Call
911
get in between them
all
by
myself
a
lone
i try
2 Keep
Things
Cool
i
try
2 Save
Her.
she won’t go.
she turns on me
with
NO.
now i’m bad the bad one.
i
the mirror
ice her brow
so
how?
somehow
I know
The Kind of Stuff
No kid Should ever Know
somehow
i know.
I go.
Leave bad enough alone.
On Her Behalf
does she
even
does she even know ?
she doesn’t know?
it’s now or never
tiny voice
my mouth is open
there’s no sound.
The CAUSE
i
tiny voice
my mouth is open
there’s a sound
i sing my songs
i write some wrongs
on Her Be-Half
And Yours
my Sisters’
tiny voice
my mouth is open
there’s a sound
i sing
us wishing
to
Be
Whole
not
Half
my mouth is open
there’s a sound
i Sing
Us
not
The
lost
but
found.
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