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“ We are inspired by this #woman on a #mission! She turned down roles to focus and spread the word for her indie feature film with an all female production team! Keep it up! #girlpower!

Check her out: @CaliLiliIndies :  “ 

• • • • • • • • • • • • • • 

"We Don’t Fall in Love, We Rise” ™ 🎤 from Soundtrack 4 “eVe N’ god ; this female is not yet rated™ my indie feature film, handmade with all female team! I turned down roles 2 turn up FeMPower™

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“It took me a minute,
but I did it …”
(Indie Artists Are Endangered Species)
By ©CaliLili™

A “coupla” years ago, I set out to make my Indie Feature Film and Full length album, both of which are ABOUT Diversity.

My FIERCELY INDIE Upcycled, Recycled Sustainable, and Green Film + Music FeMtO™StudiO was built from SCRATCH with upcycled and recycled materials and honors the Ocean environment on which it stands.

I wanted to MAKE my projects with a DIVERSE Team AND I wanted to be FREE from Corporate Overlords.

It took me a minute, but I did it … with a whole lotta help from my team.

I can proudly say, we ARE in our final stages of POST Production as the mostly edited film has been awaiting her music, and her ENDING SCENE … the album is damn near complete and we shot our ending:)

This is the first of many in the pipeline of my now thriving FeMtO™StudiO

As an “Outsider” working at the “Cutting Edge Of The Pacific™ ” … + Hollywood, I often consider my role as indie artist, as auteur actor/director + singer/songwriter …

We contribute to culture + sometimes we even “teach” just by doing our thing, but often we go unrewarded

Indie Artists, especially Females + Persons Of Color and or So Called “Alternative Cultural / Sexual Preference / Lifestyle / Gender Orientation” ARE an Endangered Species.

Everybody knows the story of now famous painter Vincent VanGogh who lived in poverty, cut his own ear off in desperation, and who’s paintings after death, made gazillions of cash, generating it’s own industry.

I’m advocating that our cultures directly keep artists working while we are alive.

Many dangers are faced depending on what part of the world we live in… but endangered species we certainly are.

These dangers reflect the cultural biosphere at large … in some cultures, violence is threatened in order to shut down free speech by artists.

In more commercial based cultures it’s a slow death via economic erasure, starvation, and quiet degradation.

As with endangered species, sometimes Our Parts, are “poached” by large + small media daily.

It’s subtle, parts of a work can b cannibalized + applied to one project this year, with other parts used next year… no attribution, no compensation.

But far Worse, is erasure by indifference to good work in favor of mediocrity or crass commercialism .

That’s a cliche but this is commonplace and adds to our invisibility bc you, the audience are often watching on your screens, what has been predetermined via cultural bias.

Ideas + expressions ARE literally, life-blood to the artist …

YOU as audience can REALLY tell, when an artist LIVES AND BREATHES what she or he is doing…

YOU know the difference between a home baked cookie and the one wrapped and slapped up by factory committee.

Worst of all …

If our indie voices are shouted down by corporate art, bought and paid for … and far louder, amped up by corporation chaching ….

If indie artists are ignored by the very people we seek to share with, at the hearth and heart of society, culture, village, neighborhood …

Someday, indie artists , speaking that lone wolf language, sharing that message of freedom and individuality, may cease to believe in themselves.

And That, dear audience, if you check the history and herstory of artistic suppression … will, inevitably and irreparably, destroy freedom, individuality, and civilization, for us all.

In the case of indifference, you can make a difference by seeking out and supporting Indie Artists that you believe in. It doesn’t take much to support the arts and it helps artists so much more when you do so directly, bc giving money to a Big Corporation or even to a government arts council is really paying your support into a large structure that maintains those prejudicial structures and favours whomever the corporation or government favours.

We are tiny voices, squeaking for our lives and we really do this work, for you… No really, we really do… that’s why so many of us give up lucrative opportunities, to remain free in our creative voices ….

If u know an artist’s works,

If u genuinely appreciate their work,

Please DO Let them know it. Please DO support them directly and monetarily if you can by simply buying directly from them whenever possible.

It actually CAN be a life + death matter.
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As Sophisticated as #Technology
Or We Lose Both™
I’ve written a (copyright lol) book on the topic : “Declaration Of IndiePenDance™ ©CaliLili™ AllRightsReserved
And will publish it among other books,
But for now,

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©Cali Lili™
*
In Solidarity
Our GlobaL-LGBT Rights,
Girl Power
ProChoice
Womens’ Rights
+
Civil Rights family, 
aching for both
Freedom to Live
And
Freedom To Love
*
In solidarity with all those
for whom “Justice” or
“Coming Out”
is still a dream
We honour your
Human Rights
+
Celebrate YOUR LOVE.
*
Love is our birthright.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
Sisters+Brothers
Where-ever
“Justice”
“Coming Out”
or “Womens’ Rights”
Achieving Equality
May not be as easy 
as it is for some of us
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
“Norms” of Society
can be oppressive gate-keepers behind which, exist many closets 
holding secrets, lies, and  tragedies.
*
Healing conversations  =
Freedom FROM Shame =
*
Freedom TO Love
Is a Birth Right
*
Dream About
A Dream
About
A Dream™
*
I Listen
To the Speeches of Dr. King
I Listen
To The Voice of Martin Luther King Jr.
Because I love Great Music.
The Force and Lift of this Great Man’s Words,
This Great Man’s Spirit,
His Voice,
Undeniable.
The Great Mind of this Great Man,
Eternal.
Mother Earth
Is forever Blessed With our Fortune,
Martin Luther King Jr. Lives
Among us,
Still
Loves us,
So very much.
So,
One day,
I had a Dream Too.
A Dream,
About A Dream,
About A Dream.
In that Dream, I heard the word : “Woman”
Spoken,
In that Great,
Voice,
The Voice of Justice.
“She” is Equal
In the Voice,Equal to “Man” and “Mankind.”
“She” is “Woman”
And Also
“She” Embodies
The Multiplicity of LGBT
The Blossoming Of Every Gender
Under The Civil Rights Rainbow™
“She” Bridges
“She” Completes the “HerStory”
In “HiStory”
Thus Embracing “Femme” in Every One.
I heard the words : “Sisters” … and “SisterHood,”
Equal,
To the words “Brother” and “BrotherHood,”
Celebrating
Every Gender Identity
Every Cultural Heritage
On a Never Ending Spectrum
Of Love Equals Love …
I Listen
To the Speeches of Dr. King
And I know
That I hear him right.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
We Are sending out my film, album, 
and my designs as Labours of Love.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
WeDon’tFallinLove,WeRise™
*
My Romance With Life!
©by Cali Lili™
*
Having Survived
An Abusive Childhood
I never take
The Gift Of Love
For Granted.
I  have always “ identified, ”
first and foremost,  as  :   
ARTIST. 
When I accepted myself as a 
Truli*Indie™ 
Film & Music Maker,           
I sorted out my challenges 
by writing my
Declaration of IndiePendance™©CaliLili™  
exploring the relationship between 
Society and the Artist.  
We need each other, and together 
we can SustainTheARTist™
I built my Studio, based upon my Methodology.
The Sale of my Designs, helps me Sustain 
my FeMtO™StudiO 

FeMPoWorD™ Team 
So we can continue to tell 
Truli*Indie stories that are 
“ HandMade 2 Make a Difference™”

I am lucky to have found
the missing piece of my own personal puzzle, 
when I realized that I was in Love with 
both :
My Male HeteroSexual Life + Producing Partner
(whom I married at a very young age)

and also

My Lesbian Girlfriend at that time.

(whom I met after getting married).

When I first realized this,

I felt  :   ashamed.

I researched this “condition”

as though I was mentally ill.

Luckily, with much soul searching,

much researching

and much love and support from 

My Male Partner, 

My New GirlFriend (my first gf + i had separated)

and my friends,

I found my way out of that Place of Shame.

The Fact that All My Girlfriends have been

African American allowed me insight into

why I  have always felt so close

to African American Culture,

And My Interracial Relationships with 

My Girlfriends, also provided insight

Into Why I feel so close to

The movements that are

“Named” :

#BlackLivesMatter

+

#ProChoice

Even tho I don’t care for Labels

When Labels are used to divide us ! 

I guess I am personally

“ Label Free " 

Though in many ways, 

I would lean toward calling myself a "Lesbian,”

And I know that some Lesbians would take issue with this.

Ah, That Place of Shame,

That Place,

Where Some Communities, Societies / Cultures 

relegate those who are honest about 

their personal growth.

Let us, 

In Solidarity with those who are TRULY repressed,

Let GO of our Needless Prejudice,

Let Us show the way to TRUE #DIVERSITY 

In the #LGBTQ Community.

The #RainbowFlag is the BEST FLAG OF ALL

Let us Truly “Be The Change We Wish To See " 

And END the Discrimination that exists even 

within our own Rainbow Community,

If only in Acknowledgement of those of us

who suffer, anywhere.

Let us not be the cause of such suffering,

Love Is Indeed, Love.

For Anybody Who Feels Ashamed 

About Whom You Love : 

I Want To Say : 

This is about :  PERSONAL GROWTH

This is Cause for Celebration!

Not Shame.

It’s About LOVE. 

That’s it.  

~ ~ ~ 

I didn’t have to leave,

I didn’t have to lose,

my dignity,

my family, 

my creative and life partnership,

my home,

and 

I didn’t have to lose my girlfriend,

or my friends.

Anything that I did lose,

needed to be lost.

I am happy + healthy in what is known as a 

"Mixed Orientation Life and Creative Partnership" 

with my Male Partner,

Who has ABSOLUTELY ZERO participation 

in my Very SEPARATE,

very exclusive, monogamous 

relationship with my girlfriend.

NO, he does NOT See Other Women.

NO This is NOT an "Open Marriage”

I got married Super Young

and as an over-achiever in school,

skipping grades, winning scholarships and awards,

I just never had the time to figure out my orientation.

My Male Partner is Much Older

+ Loves Me As I am. 

So Does My GF.

So Do My Friends.

~ ~ ~ 

The More “Me” I am, the More I Can Love Others.

Learning about this missing piece of me,

Helped me to literally “Grow Up" 

"Grow into” … me.

My Male Partner loves me, 

My Girlfriend loves me,

My Friends love me.

Of course I love them ! 

That’s WHY I was willing to go through

The Self Searching, the Soul Searching

I was Honest, no matter how HARD that was …

And  

I didn’t know I was missing out on this : 

“i love me too." 

Whew, 

Sometimes It’s Hard To Say, right ?

~ ~ ~

Learning about myself also helped me

find the missing pieces 

for the films, books + albums

I wrote WAY before I 

discovered my orientation ! 

And it’s "Coming Out” in my upcoming

Social Justice films, albums + books.

 ~ ~ ~ 

SurF~> 📹 CaliLiliIndies™
Hey:)I’m Cali!
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#HandMade 2MakeADifference™
SociallyResponsive™

#Inclusion
#LGBT
#GirlPower
#ClimateChange

CaliLiliIndies™
PWMiM™
FeMtO™StudiO
VenusBeach™
CuttingEdgeOfThePacific™
ALoFT~H2O™

#Diversity Lives Here ~>

Films
Albums
Books

#SocialJustice
#LGBT
#GirlPower
#Oceans
#ClimateAction
#STEM

I work from my
#OfftheGrid
#Upcycled
#Sustainable
#GreenSpace
#SurfShack
#VeniceBeach
#Cali

Please Support My Work!

#Follow
#Like
#Share
#Purchase

📹
DaysOfeVe™
eVe n’god™this female is not yet rated™
https://t.co/7RJRq2DGR2

IndieFierce!™ + #FairTrade !

#CheckitOut
My #FairlyMade
#TeeShirts + #Designs Til My MultiMedia Available !
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If We Are Lucky Enough

To Have You As a Customer, Follower, Fan

In Advance of Releasing The Films, Albums, Books

We Offer These 

Romantic + Idealistic 

“Conversation Pieces” to spark : 

That One Conversation 

that might 

change a life.

Freedom To Love, 

is beyond a Civil Right  

It’s a Birth Right.
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eVe N’god™thisfemaleisnotyetrated™
#Girls #LGBT #Rights #GA #NC
WeDon’tFallinLove,WeRise™
©Cali Lili™
*
In Solidarity
Our GlobaL-LGBT, Girl Power + Civil Rights family, 
aching for both Freedom to Live
And Freedom To Love
*
In solidarity with all those
for whom “Justice” or
“Coming Out”
is still a dream
We honour your
Human Rights
+ Celebrate YOUR LOVE.
Love is our birthright.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
Sisters+Brothers
Where-ever
“Justice”
“Coming Out”
or “Womens’ Rights”
Achieving Equality
May not be as easy 
as it is for some of us
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
“Norms” of Society
can be oppressive gate-keepers behind which, exist many closets 
holding secrets, lies, and  tragedies.
Healing conversations 
*
Freedom FROM Shame
and
Freedom TO Love
Is a Birth Right
*
Dream About
A Dream
About
A Dream™
*
I Listen
To the Speeches of Dr. King
I Listen
To The Voice of Martin Luther King Jr.
Because I love Great Music.
The Force and Lift of this Great Man’s Words,
This Great Man’s Spirit,
His Voice,
Undeniable.
The Great Mind of this Great Man,
Eternal.
Mother Earth
Is forever Blessed With our Fortune,
Martin Luther King Jr. Lives
Among us,
Still
Loves us,
So very much.
So,
One day,
I had a Dream Too.
A Dream,
About A Dream,
About A Dream.
In that Dream, I heard the word : “Woman”
Spoken,
In that Great,
Voice,
The Voice of Justice.
“She” is Equal
In the Voice,Equal to “Man” and “Mankind.”
“She” is “Woman”
And Also
“She” Embodies
The Multiplicity of LGBT
The Blossoming Of Every Gender
Under The Civil Rights Rainbow™
“She” Bridges
“She” Completes the “HerStory”
In “HiStory”
Thus Embracing “Femme” in Every One.
I heard the words : “Sisters” … and “SisterHood,”
Equal,
To the words “Brother” and “BrotherHood,”
Celebrating
Every Gender Identity
Every Cultural Heritage
On a Never Ending Spectrum
Of Love Equals Love …
I Listen
To the Speeches of Dr. King
And I know
That I hear him right.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
We Are sending out my film, album, 
and my designs as Labours of Love.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
My Romance With Life!
©by Cali Lili™
*
Having Survived
An Abusive Childhood
I never take
The Gift Of Love
For Granted.
I  have always “ identified, ”
first and foremost,  as  :   
ARTIST. 
When I accepted myself as a 
Truli*Indie™ 
Film & Music Maker,           
I sorted out my challenges 
by writing my
Declaration of IndiePendance™©CaliLili™  
exploring the relationship between 
Society and the Artist.  
We need each other, and together 
we can SustainTheARTist™
I built my Studio, based upon my Methodology.
The Sale of my Designs, helps me Sustain 
my FeMtO™StudiO 

FeMPoWorD™ Team 
So we can continue to tell 
Truli*Indie stories that are 
“ HandMade 2 Make a Difference™”

I am lucky to have found
the missing piece of my own personal puzzle, 
when I realized that I was in Love with 
both :
My Male HeteroSexual Life + Producing Partner
(whom I married at a very young age)

and also

My Lesbian Girlfriend at that time.

(whom I met after getting married).

When I first realized this,

I felt  :   ashamed.

I researched this “condition”

as though I was mentally ill.

Luckily, with much soul searching,

much researching

and much love and support from 

My Male Partner, 

My New GirlFriend (my first gf + i had separated)

and my friends,

I found my way out of that Place of Shame.

The Fact that All My Girlfriends have been

African American allowed me insight into

why I  have always felt so close

to African American Culture,

And My Interracial Relationships with 

My Girlfriends, also provided insight

Into Why I feel so close to

The movements that are

“Named” :

#BlackLivesMatter

+

#ProChoice

Even tho I don’t care for Labels

When Labels are used to divide us ! 

I guess I am personally

“ Label Free " 

Though in many ways, 

I would lean toward calling myself a "Lesbian,”

And I know that some Lesbians would take issue with this.

Ah, That Place of Shame,

That Place,

Where Some Communities, Societies / Cultures 

relegate those who are honest about 

their personal growth.

Let us, 

In Solidarity with those who are TRULY repressed,

Let GO of our Needless Prejudice,

Let Us show the way to TRUE #DIVERSITY 

In the #LGBTQ Community.

The #RainbowFlag is the BEST FLAG OF ALL

Let us Truly “Be The Change We Wish To See " 

And END the Discrimination that exists even 

within our own Rainbow Community,

If only in Acknowledgement of those of us

who suffer, anywhere.

Let us not be the cause of such suffering,

Love Is Indeed, Love.

For Anybody Who Feels Ashamed 

About Whom You Love : 

I Want To Say : 

This is about :  PERSONAL GROWTH

This is Cause for Celebration!

Not Shame.

It’s About LOVE. 

That’s it.  

~ ~ ~ 

I didn’t have to leave,

I didn’t have to lose,

my dignity,

my family, 

my creative and life partnership,

my home,

and 

I didn’t have to lose my girlfriend,

or my friends.

Anything that I did lose,

needed to be lost.

I am happy + healthy in what is known as a 

"Mixed Orientation Life and Creative Partnership" 

with my Male Partner,

Who has ABSOLUTELY ZERO participation 

in my Very SEPARATE,

very exclusive, monogamous 

relationship with my girlfriend.

NO, he does NOT See Other Women.

NO This is NOT an "Open Marriage”

I got married Super Young

and as an over-achiever in school,

skipping grades, winning scholarships and awards,

I just never had the time to figure out my orientation.

My Male Partner is Much Older

+ Loves Me As I am. 

So Does My GF.

So Do My Friends.

~ ~ ~ 

The More “Me” I am, the More I Can Love Others.

Learning about this missing piece of me,

Helped me to literally “Grow Up" 

"Grow into” … me.

My Male Partner loves me, 

My Girlfriend loves me,

My Friends love me.

Of course I love them ! 

That’s WHY I was willing to go through

The Self Searching, the Soul Searching

I was Honest, no matter how HARD that was …

And  

I didn’t know I was missing out on this : 

“i love me too." 

Whew, 

Sometimes It’s Hard To Say, right ?

~ ~ ~

Learning about myself also helped me

find the missing pieces 

for the films, books + albums

I wrote WAY before I 

discovered my orientation ! 

And it’s "Coming Out” in my upcoming

Social Justice films, albums + books.

 ~ ~ ~ 

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eVe N’god™thisfemaleisnotyetrated™
#Girls #LGBT #Rights #GA #NC
WeDon’tFallinLove,WeRise™
©Cali Lili™
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In Solidarity
Our GlobaL-LGBT, Girl Power + Civil Rights family, 
aching for both Freedom to Live
And Freedom To Love
*
In solidarity with all those
for whom “Justice” or
“Coming Out”
is still a dream
We honour your
Human Rights
+ Celebrate YOUR LOVE.
Love is our birthright.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
Sisters+Brothers
Where-ever
“Justice”
“Coming Out”
or “Womens’ Rights”
Achieving Equality
May not be as easy 
as it is for some of us
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
“Norms” of Society
can be oppressive gate-keepers behind which, exist many closets 
holding secrets, lies, and  tragedies.
Healing conversations 
*
Freedom FROM Shame
and
Freedom TO Love
Is a Birth Right
*
Dream About
A Dream
About
A Dream™
*
I Listen
To the Speeches of Dr. King
I Listen
To The Voice of Martin Luther King Jr.
Because I love Great Music.
The Force and Lift of this Great Man’s Words,
This Great Man’s Spirit,
His Voice,
Undeniable.
The Great Mind of this Great Man,
Eternal.
Mother Earth
Is forever Blessed With our Fortune,
Martin Luther King Jr. Lives
Among us,
Still
Loves us,
So very much.
So,
One day,
I had a Dream Too.
A Dream,
About A Dream,
About A Dream.
In that Dream, I heard the word : “Woman”
Spoken,
In that Great,
Voice,
The Voice of Justice.
“She” is Equal
In the Voice,Equal to “Man” and “Mankind.”
“She” is “Woman”
And Also
“She” Embodies
The Multiplicity of LGBT
The Blossoming Of Every Gender
Under The Civil Rights Rainbow™
“She” Bridges
“She” Completes the “HerStory”
In “HiStory”
Thus Embracing “Femme” in Every One.
I heard the words : “Sisters” … and “SisterHood,”
Equal,
To the words “Brother” and “BrotherHood,”
Celebrating
Every Gender Identity
Every Cultural Heritage
On a Never Ending Spectrum
Of Love Equals Love …
I Listen
To the Speeches of Dr. King
And I know
That I hear him right.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
We Are sending out my film, album, 
and my designs as Labours of Love.
*
Freedom To Love
is a Birth Right.
*
My Romance With Life!
©by Cali Lili™
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Having Survived
An Abusive Childhood
I never take
The Gift Of Love
For Granted.
I  have always “ identified, ”
first and foremost,  as  :   
ARTIST. 
When I accepted myself as a 
Truli*Indie™ 
Film & Music Maker,           
I sorted out my challenges 
by writing my
Declaration of IndiePendance™©CaliLili™  
exploring the relationship between 
Society and the Artist.  
We need each other, and together 
we can SustainTheARTist™
I built my Studio, based upon my Methodology.
The Sale of my Designs, helps me Sustain 
my FeMtO™StudiO 

FeMPoWorD™ Team 
So we can continue to tell 
Truli*Indie stories that are 
“ HandMade 2 Make a Difference™”

I am lucky to have found
the missing piece of my own personal puzzle, 
when I realized that I was in Love with 
both :
My Male HeteroSexual Life + Producing Partner
(whom I married at a very young age)

and also

My Lesbian Girlfriend at that time.

(whom I met after getting married).

When I first realized this,

I felt  :   ashamed.

I researched this “condition”

as though I was mentally ill.

Luckily, with much soul searching,

much researching

and much love and support from 

My Male Partner, 

My New GirlFriend (my first gf + i had separated)

and my friends,

I found my way out of that Place of Shame.

The Fact that All My Girlfriends have been

African American allowed me insight into

why I  have always felt so close

to African American Culture,

And My Interracial Relationships with 

My Girlfriends, also provided insight

Into Why I feel so close to

The movements that are

“Named” :

#BlackLivesMatter

+

#ProChoice

Even tho I don’t care for Labels

When Labels are used to divide us ! 

I guess I am personally

“ Label Free " 

Though in many ways, 

I would lean toward calling myself a "Lesbian,”

And I know that some Lesbians would take issue with this.

Ah, That Place of Shame,

That Place,

Where Some Communities, Societies / Cultures 

relegate those who are honest about 

their personal growth.

Let us, 

In Solidarity with those who are TRULY repressed,

Let GO of our Needless Prejudice,

Let Us show the way to TRUE #DIVERSITY 

In the #LGBTQ Community.

The #RainbowFlag is the BEST FLAG OF ALL

Let us Truly “Be The Change We Wish To See " 

And END the Discrimination that exists even 

within our own Rainbow Community,

If only in Acknowledgement of those of us

who suffer, anywhere.

Let us not be the cause of such suffering,

Love Is Indeed, Love.

For Anybody Who Feels Ashamed 

About Whom You Love : 

I Want To Say : 

This is about :  PERSONAL GROWTH

This is Cause for Celebration!

Not Shame.

It’s About LOVE. 

That’s it.  

~ ~ ~ 

I didn’t have to leave,

I didn’t have to lose,

my dignity,

my family, 

my creative and life partnership,

my home,

and 

I didn’t have to lose my girlfriend,

or my friends.

Anything that I did lose,

needed to be lost.

I am happy + healthy in what is known as a 

"Mixed Orientation Life and Creative Partnership" 

with my Male Partner,

Who has ABSOLUTELY ZERO participation 

in my Very SEPARATE,

very exclusive, monogamous 

relationship with my girlfriend.

NO, he does NOT See Other Women.

NO This is NOT an "Open Marriage”

I got married Super Young

and as an over-achiever in school,

skipping grades, winning scholarships and awards,

I just never had the time to figure out my orientation.

My Male Partner is Much Older

+ Loves Me As I am. 

So Does My GF.

So Do My Friends.

~ ~ ~ 

The More “Me” I am, the More I Can Love Others.

Learning about this missing piece of me,

Helped me to literally “Grow Up" 

"Grow into” … me.

My Male Partner loves me, 

My Girlfriend loves me,

My Friends love me.

Of course I love them ! 

That’s WHY I was willing to go through

The Self Searching, the Soul Searching

I was Honest, no matter how HARD that was …

And  

I didn’t know I was missing out on this : 

“i love me too." 

Whew, 

Sometimes It’s Hard To Say, right ?

~ ~ ~

Learning about myself also helped me

find the missing pieces 

for the films, books + albums

I wrote WAY before I 

discovered my orientation ! 

And it’s "Coming Out” in my upcoming

Social Justice films, albums + books.

 ~ ~ ~ 

SurF~> 📹 CaliLiliIndies™
Hey:)I’m Cali!
I Make Signature
PicturesWordsMusicInMotion™
#HandMade 2MakeADifference™
SociallyResponsive™

#Inclusion
#LGBT
#GirlPower
#ClimateChange

CaliLiliIndies™
PWMiM™
FeMtO™StudiO
VenusBeach™
CuttingEdgeOfThePacific™
ALoFT~H2O™

#Diversity Lives Here ~>

Films
Albums
Books

#SocialJustice
#LGBT
#GirlPower
#Oceans
#ClimateAction
#STEM

I work from my
#OfftheGrid
#Upcycled
#Sustainable
#GreenSpace
#SurfShack
#VeniceBeach
#Cali

Please Support My Work!

#Follow
#Like
#Share
#Purchase

📹
DaysOfeVe™
eVe n’god™this female is not yet rated™
https://t.co/7RJRq2DGR2

IndieFierce!™ + #FairTrade !

#CheckitOut
My #FairlyMade
#TeeShirts + #Designs Til My MultiMedia Available !
CaliLiliCiti™cliliblackbeauty™
http://shop.spreadshirt.com/586666/

📹 Teaser
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VhOvcIcFcoU

Truli*
CaliLili™
Intellectual Property Warning: This MultiMedia Content is Property belonging to
©Cali Lili™
All Artist Rights Reserved;
Rigorously Documented,
Rabidly enforced.
*
If We Are Lucky Enough

To Have You As a Customer, Follower, Fan

In Advance of Releasing The Films, Albums, Books

We Offer These 

Romantic + Idealistic 

“Conversation Pieces” to spark : 

That One Conversation 

that might 

change a life.

Freedom To Love, 

is beyond a Civil Right  

It’s a Birth Right.

WorkOutStepOutSpeakOut™
*
Buy My #FairlyMade
#TeeShirts + #Designs Til My MultiMedia Available !
CaliLiliCiti™
C.Lili™
BlackBeauty
http://shop.spreadshirt.com/586666/
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