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” #ColonializationOfCulture™ #Culture is #NutritionMeetsEnvironment™ “© : We Consume it like the air we breathe, by OSMOSIS : If u 💕 Movies+Music, Free-speech, Press, Journalism + Freedoms of Democracy : Please ReadTheIndieLabel™ + Ask WhatsInYourIndie™ + who’s lobbying in your #legislature + WHY ; © Cali Lili ™ c.lili™ clili.SeaLili™ “©

Culture

is

Nutrition Meets Environment ™ :

We Consume it

+ sometimes unwittingly,  like the air we breathe, by OSMOSIS :

If You Love Movies + Music : Please ReadTheIndieLabel™ + Ask : WhatsInYourIndie™

If you love your basic democratic freedoms : please support authentic journalism, journalists, a free press + ASK QUESTIONS – like – who’s lobbying in your legislature, and who benefits from legislation?

We Consume Culture + a sometimes it’s OSMOSIS.

As an indie artist – I ask movie + music lovers to SupportTheARTSustainTheARTisT ™

CureAteFoYoSelf™ so many “curators” are working with big money sources of content to make their “picks” that it’s pointless to consider it “curating” especially when we are living in a far more diverse 21st Century – where – so-called “curating” amounts to gate-keeping – when we CAN + SHOULD discover on our own – it’s SO MUCH MORE FUN!

Reading ‘the indie label’ is not unlike reading a nutrition label.

A Sacred Space :

SupportTheARTSustainTheARTisT™

Neighborhoods built from scratch by dedicated, caring, working people, are – like great relationships and also like great works of art / craft made by artisans in communion with culture – a ‘sacred space’ – which must not be violated by the pale glow of so-called ‘progress’ fueled by the zero-sum games of bottom-line parasitical leeches : cultural imposters – bottom-feeders + 1%er top-slurpers .

The 21st century dedicated working class indie artist – like 21st century – middle-class/working class humanity –

– could become an Endangered Species “© together – if we don’t recognize that GentrificationOfCulture ™© is a problem for us both.

It’s not solved with Publicity Stunts + gimmicks –  the kinds of ‘ charity / charities employed mainly to bestow grace on the Charity-Giver and to  absolve them of their quiet Economic Sins –

When ” citizens united” was passed by the ” scotus corporate subsidiary” they opened the door for future elimination of individual human innovation – to be gentrified by corporate-owned “Artificial Intelligence” –

If successful – this would amount to a full scale attack on free-thinking, free-living individual human “genius” (for lack of a better term) – in favor of a “wholly owned subsidiary / subsidized ” form of “genius” – only allowed to see “daylight” once fully patented by the corporation who ultimately “owned” it outright through astronomical – financially – subsidized legal means. Corporate welfare – seeking to eliminate human welfare (unless it serves the corporation).

– ‘these quiet crimes’ referenced in my song ‘4the9th™’ / ForTheNinth™© – about hurricane Katrina in New Orleans are the ‘quiet discrimination’ –

are the silent marauders sowing seeds, like harmful weeds + even more harmful pesticides, like both – virus and it’s over prescribed antibiotic – culminating in the overgrowth and dissemination of an antibiotic-resistant ‘strain’ of an ongoing economic discrimination virus –

– a virus fueled by it’s De-Nihil-ISM™ siblings – racism, sexism, homophobia, ageism , climate denial – where money doesn’t just ‘talk’ – it screams obscenities – and destroys culture + more importantly – it destroys the living artist.

What’s worse is that some of these Intruders – dare to Don themselves, Cloak themselves in the mantle of ‘artist’ – twice insulting the artist + the culture she serves, the culture she weaves, the culture with which she is interdependent.

Sometimes well-meaning, often self-serving “entertainment reporters” / “curators” ( pronounced cure-haters at our studio) who sometimes come in the form of what is often referred to as ‘ arts + culture journalists’ whether they work for high-brow or low-brow publications / media – are often entitled dilettantes / trust-fund babies themselves – who contribute to the so called “curator class” and either detest us because they can’t make art themselves – or simply do NOT understand or care about the real – flesh and blood and guts – and life of an artist –

These “culture-vultures are virulent enablers of this GentrificationOfCulture ™ – and are literally destroying the Culture – and more importantly – the living breathing artist who needs the Culture as much as we need oxygen. Guys – you don’t get it – and I’ll continue to try – to explain.

De-Nihil-ISM™ + GentrificationOfCulture™ ColonializationOfCulture™ – are cure-ated in a healing medicinal born of RESPECT +  self-determination –

It’s about sharing not only the wealth but also the opportunity –

#WhatsInYourIndie™ :

It’s something Audiences – cinephiles and audiophiles alike – can be aware of when ever we purchase movies + music —

The term “indie” is much appropriated and it’s not a matter of race or gender- it’s about – asking the same questions we ask of our nutrition – who made it?

Did some Corporate entity swoop in and find a malleable “candidate” ( as is done in politics) to mold and shape into the “image” of “what they tell us – we the people – want”?

ReadTheIndieLabel™

Just as with nutrition AND with voting – if we all take a moment to “read the ingredients” of who made the Culture we “consume” — and seek out our own “Van Gogh”- support those of us who have authentically dedicated our lives to crafting culture – we would then continue the great tradition of creating Culture together – a relationship between Audiences and professional “culture – crafters “™©-

and together we would pushback AGAINST the Corporate dominance over us ALL – because we are in the same boat.

We need to support the professional artist in media, movies , music, books – in their daily dedication —

getting a fair shot but ALSO what’s getting discarded in many industries and economies : the waning respect and growing indifference to the so called “middle class” which IS the so called “working class.”It’s about respect due – for merit as well as professionalism and dedication of one’s life to either a craft — or just as worthy – any profession – any job done well.


The Professional Artist who is an Authentic Independent Artist – is quite discernible by anyone paying attention to the “nutrition label” – it’s often someone who’s – not ‘signed’ – not ‘owned’ – not ‘in the club’ – or simply – unwilling to follow club-rules but also unwilling to sacrifice the wellness of her Culture for personal gain or ego. She’s – a crafts-person – and viewers + listeners should consider supporting the Authentic Indie Artist —

while corporate middle-persons should support + respecting those who’ve dedicated years to that craft – 

not stand ‘in the middle’ of an artist’s relationship with her listeners + viewers – with your hand out, nor your tongue – slurping off the top –


because

THAT’S

a SACRED SPACE . “©

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Words

Music

In

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‘#4The9th ™’


she died
under arrest
the Ninth Ward
she went
peacefully
‘the river sins™’

Flint Michigan

Trayvon Tamir

  • Sandra Bland
    the
    waters rising up again’©

climatestrike

NOLA

Gentrification

Climate Change

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#MovieClassic Actress/Esquire #JoannMarlowe as “Kay” in #MildredPierce #JoanCrawford #AnnBlyth ; the dangers of #MalignantNarcissism #Narcissism in #movies #tv #Hollywood

With Respect : Actress/Esquire Joann Marlowe (“Kay” in “ MildredPierce “) a study and a warning about the dangers of Malignant Narcissism ; the Predators among us with undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorders

 Recently saw an AMAZING classic movie : “Mildred Pierce”

Of course the amazing Joan Crawford – an actress’s actress – WHAT an actress – wow ! And the diabolically brilliant Ann Blyth – omg – she did an awesome job

So in the course of re-discovering this film for the second time – I also found out that my partner WingsHauser, had the pleasure of working with Ann Blyth in an episode of Murder She Wrote – ! with the iconic epic genius Angela Lansbury for whom we both have endless respect – and Wings tells me that Ms. Blyth was a true pleasure to work with –
 
I also learned that Wings grew up with Eve Arden as his next door neighbor !!! — WOW he has so much deep history in Hollywood and it’s Working Class Hollywood – not the gentrified kind —
 
Blown away by this complex, brilliant work of cinema I realized that the character of “Kay” – played by a child actor named Joann Marlowe – was the only character in the film who brought a “lightness of being” – a joy to the dark world we inhabit during the film –

The “Kay” character was not only talented – song and dance – and comedy – she also spoke “ Truth To Power ” She was the harbinger – the “canary in the coal mine” – she saw through her sister Veda’s B.S.

She warned us about her sisters’ narcissism – a malignant narcissism at that – eating up all the light in its path – in service to itself alone Veda is the perfect illustration of a “psychic vampire” – one who takes without reciprocating

“Kay” represents that element of truth we might unwittingly ignore while working overtime to “please” the narcissist who so often threatens to withhold their love

Of course many children often “take” from their parents without returning anything – but once grown up into healthy adults, most “children” do seek to give something back to their parents .
 
We expect some kids to “follow in their parents’ footsteps ” – but not as stalkers with oedipal knives out – to steal their parents’ lives and legacies… – that’s malignant narcissism and the world has had a great look at such creatures often incubated by too much money too many silver spoons , too many opportunities never earned but handed out in fake entitlement … Too much enabling from dynastic families and those who seek to win a few crumbs from the table of authentic hard won, earned success.  

What a brave true character Kay was – and what an interesting work of cinema warning us all about the dangers of people in our midst who suffer from narcissistic personality disorders – causing way more suffering to those unlucky enough to be in their orbit From what I know of it –

the Narcissist can almost never be “cured” – so the main focus of anyone seeking to heal damage caused by such a disorder – is the attempt to rescue all those who may experience harms caused by the Narcissist As a nation – and a planet – we, the inhabitants of mother earth – experience such harm whenever we find ourselves subjected to the Narcissism of dictators AND – above all – their enablers.

This movie, “Mildred Pierce” – is fair warning to every family, every nation – every planet – about the dangers of ignoring our “Kays” – in order to please and enable our “Vedas” – A warning about our indifference toward the sweetness of our life – as we pay attention to the psychotic dramas caused by those who’s only care is for themselves – I couldn’t stop thinking about the child actor who played the “Kay” role – Who was she ? Did she play other roles ?

What a talented person – So i looked her up, only to find out that this sweet soul – had suffered a terrible tragedy The sweet “Kay” character we mourned in the movie – met a very tragic life story after her work in Hollywood In honor of the “Kay” character – her fearless “Truth To Power” portrayal of that pure soul – undaunted and unafraid – yet vulnerable to mortality In honor of the brilliant Joann Marlowe and her family, who surely suffered from her loss – and surely stayed proud of her accomplishments – Here is a bit of information about her biography :

https://greatentertainersarchives.blogspot.com/2014/06/forgotten-ones-jo-ann-marlowe.html

To be sure, It is her brilliant portrayal of the true “Joy of Life” – in the character of “Kay” in “Mildred Pierce” – that perhaps, she might have been proud to have us remember her through her hauntingly joyful work in this movie. I haven’t’ seen her other roles, but I plan to do so – in her honor.

Cali Lili

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#VotingRightsMarch 🗽 #VotingRightsAreHumanRights #SpeakUp 4 YourSelf : #CallOnCongress #ForThePeopleAct #DemocracyIsAVerb #ElectionTrainRevisited ©cl

In 2012 I woke to the alarming sound of a proverbial #ElectionTrain …

Having never paid much attention to politics — that imaginary “Train” was a political “coming of age” for me –

My worries are always best addressed through my work – so – I asked my all female production crew to join me on pausing pre-production of my feature length indie movie + album – “eVe N’god this female is not yet rated ™”© – a movie + soundtrack (my debut album) that would go on to be an Oscars 2020 Contender — in order to speak up for voting rights and for democracy …

We felt so very strongly — that this nation NEEDED President Obama … so we made this music video in the hopes we might contribute somehow …

Today – we hear that the GOP is once again actively + rabidly attacking this nation’s Democracy + the CRUCIAL in – and elsewhere in our beloved nation …

Once again, we offer my music video as ringing of an alarm …

A prayer …

A plea for everyone in America to speak up for voting rights …

To speak up for democracy …

To speak up for each other …

Amen

Election Train
Cali Lili
election train by Cali Lili is on apple 🍎 music

also available everywhere music streams

🍎🎵 https://music.apple.com/us/album/election-train-revisited-single/1435215685

ElectionTrain

©

Lyrics by Cali Lili

Music by Wings Hauser 

produced + orchestrated  by Cali Lili

Additional music by Cali Lili 

Vocals by Cali Lili 

***

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Train

Toy Train

Soul Trains

Trains of Thought

People Trained

Sold and Bought

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Story Holocaust

War Train

Peace Train

People Trained

Sold and Bought

VERSES :

What Kinda Broken Dreams

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Nothin Comin Back

Dream

Dreamin’ Up

The Iron Beast

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

See Me

I’m a Plastic Priestess

Screamin’ Through the Window

Of Emergency Release

What Kinda Broken Backs

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got No-One Comin’ Back

Robber Trains

Gravy Trains

They Foot the Cost

Of Another Movin’ Picture Story

Holocaust

What Kinda Broken Dreams

Work these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Zero Comin Back

CHORUS :

Come and See

The Slow Decay

Ridin’ the Rails

of Another Day

Come and Ride

The Election Train

Follow Me Ridin’ Up the Drain

Come and See the Slow Decay

Ridin’ the Rails of Another Day

VERSES :

What Kinda Dreams

Work these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We got Zero Comin Back

Sure is Gettin’ Darker on the Twilight Express

Movin’ On without us this Election Gotta Press

Sure is Gettin Darker on the Twilight Express

Can’t See Nothin’ from a Bullet Train with No Address

(REPEAT CHORUS)

VERSES :

What Kinda Broken Knees

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Nothin’ Comin Back

Sleep Sleepin

Sleepin With a Monster

See Dreamin

Dreamin of a Beast

Me Me

I’m a Plastic Priestess

Scream Screamin

For My Pretty Shattered Dream

Leave Behind

What I Couldn’t Find

Sleep Inside

A Monster In Motion

What the Hell

My Country Ain’t For Sale

Drown My Sorrow

Cry Me an Ocean

Movin On

Cause I’m Movin Out

Rockin Out

Cause I been Rocked Over

Trackin Down

Trackin Down

A Nightmare

Nightmare of a Livin Locomotion

Leave Behind

What I’ll Never Find

Tried My Best

Gotta Get Some Rest

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Train

Toy Train

Soul Trains

Trains of Thought

People Trained

Sold and Bought

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Story Holocaust

War Train

Peace Train

People Trained

Sold and Bought.

*

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#VotingRightsMarch #VotingRightsAreHumanRights #ElectionTrainRevisited ©cl ; #SpeakUp 4 YourSelf : #CallOnCongress #ForThePeopleAct #DemocracyIsAVerb

In 2012 I woke to the alarming sound of a proverbial #ElectionTrain …

Having never paid much attention to politics — that imaginary “Train” was a political “coming of age” for me –

My worries are always best addressed through my work – so – I asked my all female production crew to join me on pausing pre-production of my feature length indie movie + album – “eVe N’god this female is not yet rated ™”© – a movie + soundtrack (my debut album) that would go on to be an Oscars 2020 Contender — in order to speak up for voting rights and for democracy …

We felt so very strongly — that this nation NEEDED President Obama … so we made this music video in the hopes we might contribute somehow …

Today – we hear that the GOP is once again actively + rabidly attacking this nation’s Democracy + the CRUCIAL in – and elsewhere in our beloved nation …

Once again, we offer my music video as ringing of an alarm …

A prayer …

A plea for everyone in America to speak up for voting rights …

To speak up for democracy …

To speak up for each other …

Amen

Election Train
Cali Lili
election train by Cali Lili is on apple 🍎 music

also available everywhere music streams

🍎🎵 https://music.apple.com/us/album/election-train-revisited-single/1435215685

ElectionTrain

©

Lyrics by Cali Lili

Music by Wings Hauser 

produced + orchestrated  by Cali Lili

Additional music by Cali Lili 

Vocals by Cali Lili 

***

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Train

Toy Train

Soul Trains

Trains of Thought

People Trained

Sold and Bought

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Story Holocaust

War Train

Peace Train

People Trained

Sold and Bought

VERSES :

What Kinda Broken Dreams

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Nothin Comin Back

Dream

Dreamin’ Up

The Iron Beast

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

See Me

I’m a Plastic Priestess

Screamin’ Through the Window

Of Emergency Release

What Kinda Broken Backs

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got No-One Comin’ Back

Robber Trains

Gravy Trains

They Foot the Cost

Of Another Movin’ Picture Story

Holocaust

What Kinda Broken Dreams

Work these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Zero Comin Back

CHORUS :

Come and See

The Slow Decay

Ridin’ the Rails

of Another Day

Come and Ride

The Election Train

Follow Me Ridin’ Up the Drain

Come and See the Slow Decay

Ridin’ the Rails of Another Day

VERSES :

What Kinda Dreams

Work these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We got Zero Comin Back

Sure is Gettin’ Darker on the Twilight Express

Movin’ On without us this Election Gotta Press

Sure is Gettin Darker on the Twilight Express

Can’t See Nothin’ from a Bullet Train with No Address

(REPEAT CHORUS)

VERSES :

What Kinda Broken Knees

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Nothin’ Comin Back

Sleep Sleepin

Sleepin With a Monster

See Dreamin

Dreamin of a Beast

Me Me

I’m a Plastic Priestess

Scream Screamin

For My Pretty Shattered Dream

Leave Behind

What I Couldn’t Find

Sleep Inside

A Monster In Motion

What the Hell

My Country Ain’t For Sale

Drown My Sorrow

Cry Me an Ocean

Movin On

Cause I’m Movin Out

Rockin Out

Cause I been Rocked Over

Trackin Down

Trackin Down

A Nightmare

Nightmare of a Livin Locomotion

Leave Behind

What I’ll Never Find

Tried My Best

Gotta Get Some Rest

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Train

Toy Train

Soul Trains

Trains of Thought

People Trained

Sold and Bought

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Story Holocaust

War Train

Peace Train

People Trained

Sold and Bought.

*

🌊c.lili™SeaLili™CurrentZLeaps+LandingZ™©🧜🏾‍♀️🧜🏼‍♀️🧜🏿‍♀️🏄🏽‍♀️🏄🏼‍♀️🏄🏾‍♀️🌊🐬🌊

#VotingRights are #HumanRights #VotingRightsAreHumanRights #ElectionTrainRevisited ©cl ; #SpeakUp 4 YourSelf : #CallOnCongress #ForThePeopleAct #DemocracyIsAVerb

In 2012 I woke to the alarming sound of a proverbial #ElectionTrain …

Having never paid much attention to politics — that imaginary “Train” was a political “coming of age” for me –

My worries are always best addressed through my work – so – I asked my all female production crew to join me on pausing pre-production of my feature length indie movie + album – “eVe N’god this female is not yet rated ™”© – a movie + soundtrack (my debut album) that would go on to be an Oscars 2020 Contender — in order to speak up for voting rights and for democracy …

We felt so very strongly — that this nation NEEDED President Obama … so we made this music video in the hopes we might contribute somehow …

Today – we hear that the GOP is once again actively + rabidly attacking this nation’s Democracy + the CRUCIAL in – and elsewhere in our beloved nation …

Once again, we offer my music video as ringing of an alarm …

A prayer …

A plea for everyone in America to speak up for voting rights …

To speak up for democracy …

To speak up for each other …

Amen

Election Train
Cali Lili
election train by Cali Lili is on apple 🍎 music

also available everywhere music streams

🍎🎵 https://music.apple.com/us/album/election-train-revisited-single/1435215685

ElectionTrain

©

Lyrics by Cali Lili

Music by Wings Hauser 

produced + orchestrated  by Cali Lili

Additional music by Cali Lili 

Vocals by Cali Lili 

***

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Train

Toy Train

Soul Trains

Trains of Thought

People Trained

Sold and Bought

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Story Holocaust

War Train

Peace Train

People Trained

Sold and Bought

VERSES :

What Kinda Broken Dreams

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Nothin Comin Back

Dream

Dreamin’ Up

The Iron Beast

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

See Me

I’m a Plastic Priestess

Screamin’ Through the Window

Of Emergency Release

What Kinda Broken Backs

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got No-One Comin’ Back

Robber Trains

Gravy Trains

They Foot the Cost

Of Another Movin’ Picture Story

Holocaust

What Kinda Broken Dreams

Work these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Zero Comin Back

CHORUS :

Come and See

The Slow Decay

Ridin’ the Rails

of Another Day

Come and Ride

The Election Train

Follow Me Ridin’ Up the Drain

Come and See the Slow Decay

Ridin’ the Rails of Another Day

VERSES :

What Kinda Dreams

Work these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We got Zero Comin Back

Sure is Gettin’ Darker on the Twilight Express

Movin’ On without us this Election Gotta Press

Sure is Gettin Darker on the Twilight Express

Can’t See Nothin’ from a Bullet Train with No Address

(REPEAT CHORUS)

VERSES :

What Kinda Broken Knees

Built these Tracks

We Got Missiles Goin Forward

We Got Nothin’ Comin Back

Sleep Sleepin

Sleepin With a Monster

See Dreamin

Dreamin of a Beast

Me Me

I’m a Plastic Priestess

Scream Screamin

For My Pretty Shattered Dream

Leave Behind

What I Couldn’t Find

Sleep Inside

A Monster In Motion

What the Hell

My Country Ain’t For Sale

Drown My Sorrow

Cry Me an Ocean

Movin On

Cause I’m Movin Out

Rockin Out

Cause I been Rocked Over

Trackin Down

Trackin Down

A Nightmare

Nightmare of a Livin Locomotion

Leave Behind

What I’ll Never Find

Tried My Best

Gotta Get Some Rest

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

Gotta Get Some

Get Some

Get Some Rest

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Train

Toy Train

Soul Trains

Trains of Thought

People Trained

Sold and Bought

Cattle Train

Coal Train

Picture Story Holocaust

War Train

Peace Train

People Trained

Sold and Bought.

*

🌊c.lili™SeaLili™CurrentZLeaps+LandingZ™©🧜🏾‍♀️🧜🏼‍♀️🧜🏿‍♀️🏄🏽‍♀️🏄🏼‍♀️🏄🏾‍♀️🌊🐬🌊

#MovieClassic Actress/Esquire #JoannMarlowe as “Kay” in #MildredPierce #JoanCrawford #AnnBlyth ; the dangers of #MalignantNarcissism #Narcissism in #movies #tv #Hollywood

With Respect : Actress/Esquire Joann Marlowe (“Kay” in “ MildredPierce “) a study and a warning about the dangers of Malignant Narcissism ; the Predators among us with undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorders

 Recently saw an AMAZING classic movie : “Mildred Pierce”

Of course the amazing Joan Crawford – an actress’s actress – WHAT an actress – wow ! And the diabolically brilliant Ann Blyth – omg – she did an awesome job

So in the course of re-discovering this film for the second time – I also found out that my partner WingsHauser, had the pleasure of working with Ann Blyth in an episode of Murder She Wrote – ! with the iconic epic genius Angela Lansbury for whom we both have endless respect – and Wings tells me that Ms. Blyth was a true pleasure to work with –
Blown away by this complex, brilliant work of cinema I realized that the character of “Kay” – played by a child actor named Joann Marlowe – was the only character in the film who brought a “lightness of being” – a joy to the dark world we inhabit during the film –

The “Kay” character was not only talented – song and dance – and comedy – she also spoke “ Truth To Power ” She was the harbinger – the “canary in the coal mine” – she saw through her sister Veda’s B.S.

She warned us about her sisters’ narcissism – a malignant narcissism at that – eating up all the light in its path – in service to itself alone Veda is the perfect illustration of a “psychic vampire” – one who takes without reciprocating

“Kay” represents that element of truth we might unwittingly ignore while working overtime to “please” the narcissist who so often threatens to withhold their love

Of course many children often “take” from their parents without returning anything – but once grown up into healthy adults, most “children” do seek to give something back to their parents .
 
We expect some kids to “follow in their parents’ footsteps ” – but not as stalkers with oedipal knives out – to steal their parents’ lives and legacies… – that’s malignant narcissism and the world has had a great look at such creatures often incubated by too much money too many silver spoons , too many opportunities never earned but handed out in fake entitlement … Too much enabling from dynastic families and those who seek to win a few crumbs from the table of authentic hard won, earned success.  

What a brave true character Kay was – and what an interesting work of cinema warning us all about the dangers of people in our midst who suffer from narcissistic personality disorders – causing way more suffering to those unlucky enough to be in their orbit From what I know of it –

the Narcissist can almost never be “cured” – so the main focus of anyone seeking to heal damage caused by such a disorder – is the attempt to rescue all those who may experience harms caused by the Narcissist As a nation – and a planet – we, the inhabitants of mother earth – experience such harm whenever we find ourselves subjected to the Narcissism of dictators AND – above all – their enablers.

This movie, “Mildred Pierce” – is fair warning to every family, every nation – every planet – about the dangers of ignoring our “Kays” – in order to please and enable our “Vedas” – A warning about our indifference toward the sweetness of our life – as we pay attention to the psychotic dramas caused by those who’s only care is for themselves – I couldn’t stop thinking about the child actor who played the “Kay” role – Who was she ? Did she play other roles ?

What a talented person – So i looked her up, only to find out that this sweet soul – had suffered a terrible tragedy The sweet “Kay” character we mourned in the movie – met a very tragic life story after her work in Hollywood In honor of the “Kay” character – her fearless “Truth To Power” portrayal of that pure soul – undaunted and unafraid – yet vulnerable to mortality In honor of the brilliant Joann Marlowe and her family, who surely suffered from her loss – and surely stayed proud of her accomplishments – Here is a bit of information about her biography :

https://greatentertainersarchives.blogspot.com/2014/06/forgotten-ones-jo-ann-marlowe.html

To be sure, It is her brilliant portrayal of the true “Joy of Life” – in the character of “Kay” in “Mildred Pierce” – that perhaps, she might have been proud to have us remember her through her hauntingly joyful work in this movie. I haven’t’ seen her other roles, but I plan to do so – in her honor.

Cali Lili

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With Respect : Actress/Esquire Joann Marlowe (“Kay” in “ MildredPierce “) a study and a warning about the dangers of Malignant Narcissism ; the Predators among us with undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorders

 Recently saw an AMAZING classic movie : “Mildred Pierce”

Of course the amazing Joan Crawford – an actress’s actress – WHAT an actress – wow ! And the diabolically brilliant Ann Blyth – omg – she did an awesome job

So in the course of re-discovering this film for the second time – I also found out that my partner WingsHauser, had the pleasure of working with Ann Blyth in an episode of Murder She Wrote – ! with the iconic epic genius Angela Lansbury for whom we both have endless respect – and Wings tells me that Ms. Blyth was a true pleasure to work with –
Blown away by this complex, brilliant work of cinema I realized that the character of “Kay” – played by a child actor named Joann Marlowe – was the only character in the film who brought a “lightness of being” – a joy to the dark world we inhabit during the film –

The “Kay” character was not only talented – song and dance – and comedy – she also spoke “ Truth To Power ” She was the harbinger – the “canary in the coal mine” – she saw through her sister Veda’s B.S.

She warned us about her sisters’ narcissism – a malignant narcissism at that – eating up all the light in its path – in service to itself alone Veda is the perfect illustration of a “psychic vampire” – one who takes without reciprocating

“Kay” represents that element of truth we might unwittingly ignore while working overtime to “please” the narcissist who so often threatens to withhold their love

Of course many children often “take” from their parents without returning anything – but once grown up into healthy adults, most “children” do seek to give something back to their parents .
 
We expect some kids to “follow in their parents’ footsteps ” – but not as stalkers with oedipal knives out – to steal their parents’ lives and legacies… – that’s malignant narcissism and the world has had a great look at such creatures often incubated by too much money too many silver spoons , too many opportunities never earned but handed out in fake entitlement … Too much enabling from dynastic families and those who seek to win a few crumbs from the table of authentic hard won, earned success.  

What a brave true character Kay was – and what an interesting work of cinema warning us all about the dangers of people in our midst who suffer from narcissistic personality disorders – causing way more suffering to those unlucky enough to be in their orbit From what I know of it –

the Narcissist can almost never be “cured” – so the main focus of anyone seeking to heal damage caused by such a disorder – is the attempt to rescue all those who may experience harms caused by the Narcissist As a nation – and a planet – we, the inhabitants of mother earth – experience such harm whenever we find ourselves subjected to the Narcissism of dictators AND – above all – their enablers.

This movie, “Mildred Pierce” – is fair warning to every family, every nation – every planet – about the dangers of ignoring our “Kays” – in order to please and enable our “Vedas” – A warning about our indifference toward the sweetness of our life – as we pay attention to the psychotic dramas caused by those who’s only care is for themselves – I couldn’t stop thinking about the child actor who played the “Kay” role – Who was she ? Did she play other roles ?

What a talented person – So i looked her up, only to find out that this sweet soul – had suffered a terrible tragedy The sweet “Kay” character we mourned in the movie – met a very tragic life story after her work in Hollywood In honor of the “Kay” character – her fearless “Truth To Power” portrayal of that pure soul – undaunted and unafraid – yet vulnerable to mortality In honor of the brilliant Joann Marlowe and her family, who surely suffered from her loss – and surely stayed proud of her accomplishments – Here is a bit of information about her biography :

https://greatentertainersarchives.blogspot.com/2014/06/forgotten-ones-jo-ann-marlowe.html

To be sure, It is her brilliant portrayal of the true “Joy of Life” – in the character of “Kay” in “Mildred Pierce” – that perhaps, she might have been proud to have us remember her through her hauntingly joyful work in this movie. I haven’t’ seen her other roles, but I plan to do so – in her honor.

Cali Lili

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With Respect : Actress/Esquire #JoannMarlowe (“Kay” in “ #MildredPierce “) a study and a warning about the dangers of #MalignantNarcissism

With Respect : Actress/Esquire Joann Marlowe (“Kay” in “ MildredPierce “) a study and a warning about the dangers of Malignant Narcissism ; the Predators among us with undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorders

 Recently saw an AMAZING classic movie : “Mildred Pierce”

Of course the amazing Joan Crawford – an actress’s actress – WHAT an actress – wow ! And the diabolically brilliant Ann Blyth – omg – she did an awesome job

So in the course of re-discovering this film for the second time – I also found out that my partner WingsHauser, had the pleasure of working with Ann Blyth in an episode of Murder She Wrote – ! with the iconic epic genius Angela Lansbury for whom we both have endless respect – and Wings tells me that Ms. Blyth was a true pleasure to work with –
Blown away by this complex, brilliant work of cinema I realized that the character of “Kay” – played by a child actor named Joann Marlowe – was the only character in the film who brought a “lightness of being” – a joy to the dark world we inhabit during the film –

The “Kay” character was not only talented – song and dance – and comedy – she also spoke “ Truth To Power ” She was the harbinger – the “canary in the coal mine” – she saw through her sister Veda’s B.S.

She warned us about her sisters’ narcissism – a malignant narcissism at that – eating up all the light in its path – in service to itself alone Veda is the perfect illustration of a “psychic vampire” – one who takes without reciprocating

“Kay” represents that element of truth we might unwittingly ignore while working overtime to “please” the narcissist who so often threatens to withhold their love

Of course many children often “take” from their parents without returning anything – but once grown up into healthy adults, most “children” do seek to give something back to their parents

What a brave true character Kay was – and what an interesting work of cinema warning us all about the dangers of people in our midst who suffer from narcissistic personality disorders – causing way more suffering to those unlucky enough to be in their orbit From what I know of it –

the Narcissist can almost never be “cured” – so the main focus of anyone seeking to heal damage caused by such a disorder – is the attempt to rescue all those who may experience harms caused by the Narcissist As a nation – and a planet – we, the inhabitants of mother earth – experience such harm whenever we find ourselves subjected to the Narcissism of dictators AND – above all – their enablers.

This movie, “Mildred Pierce” – is fair warning to every family, every nation – every planet – about the dangers of ignoring our “Kays” – in order to please and enable our “Vedas” – A warning about our indifference toward the sweetness of our life – as we pay attention to the psychotic dramas caused by those who’s only care is for themselves – I couldn’t stop thinking about the child actor who played the “Kay” role – Who was she ? Did she play other roles ?

What a talented person – So i looked her up, only to find out that this sweet soul – had suffered a terrible tragedy The sweet “Kay” character we mourned in the movie – met a very tragic life story after her work in Hollywood In honor of the “Kay” character – her fearless “Truth To Power” portrayal of that pure soul – undaunted and unafraid – yet vulnerable to mortality In honor of the brilliant Joann Marlowe and her family, who surely suffered from her loss – and surely stayed proud of her accomplishments – Here is a bit of information about her biography :

https://greatentertainersarchives.blogspot.com/2014/06/forgotten-ones-jo-ann-marlowe.html

To be sure, It is her brilliant portrayal of the true “Joy of Life” – in the character of “Kay” in “Mildred Pierce” – that perhaps, she might have been proud to have us remember her through her hauntingly joyful work in this movie. I haven’t’ seen her other roles, but I plan to do so – in her honor.

Cali Lili

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Let’s get down to it y’all :

No more wasting Time

War could End

with the beginning

of Dating Sites matching citizens with their preferred nationality

if you choose democracy with all her faults and all her challenges :

There’s a nation waiting for you.

If you like “strong man” authoritarian dictatorships claiming no faults and no challenges :

There’s a Nation waiting for you.

ok?

pick one

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Leave democracy to those who love it.